The Change

1 Samuel 21:13 And he changed his behaviour before them, and feigned himself mad in their hands, and scrabbled on the doors of the gate, and let his spittle fall down upon his beard.

Of all the examples of change, I chose this one to lead off with for today’s devotional. The reason is because it first points to the choice of change behavior. The fact that it was feigned behavior is not so important as the issue that he had reason to change. The reasoning is at the heart of this devotional.

As a teen I was angry all the time. I had reason to change but I could not help myself. I did not know the source of my anger, nor could I find a way to get a grip on it, as much as I was afraid of it and wanted to change. So I raised my hand at an alter call, and my anger left me. How I do not know. Why I do not know. All I knew was it was gone. Nothing else about me changed. No one around me saw the change within me. I was the only one who knew. My outward behavior changed but only as to the anger. I was still a troubled teen but now without anger. Had I changed? I had no control over that anger, I could not even fake change.

Decades later, many sins later, many pains later, my father died and I repented of my life and everything I had done in it. God spoke to me in that moment and said, “Let’s start over.” I went home, found a bible and began reading every night. That was unusual behavior for me. It was observable but not disturbing to those around me. I made a conscious decision to change my behavior as to reading the Word. That was the only conscious decision I made.

Months of reading went bye and I found myself wanting to help people. My desires changed, I did not make a conscious decision to be compassionate. It was a new heart condition for which I did not have to make a conscious decision.

Ephesians 3:7 Whereof I was made a minister, according to the gift of the grace of God given unto me by the effectual working of his power.

I didn’t fake it, I am a new creation.

I became a made man.

Restore

Psalm 51:12 Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation; and uphold me with thy free spirit.

This past week a thoughtless word carried me back to a pain of the past. A deep wound inflicted upon me by my father was reopened. This man had no idea of that wound, there was no evil intention, it was just his speech to me reminded me of how it felt to be wounded by my father.

I thought I had dealt with that pain and have tried putting it out of my mind, but some memories run very deep. The deepest are love crushers. It crushed love then, it crushed love now. Recognizing the pain I sought counsel and prayer.

This morning as I open the Word and read here is Psalm 51:12 with a Word of direction. It is the Lord that restores my soul. Simple Words of forgiveness of the mouth, falling on deaf ears for my father is long past, do nothing to erase the memory. Maybe nothing will erase that memory for it is there to teach me the dangers of harsh words. Since those days I have found the joy of my salvation and this incident stole that from me.

My joy can and is restored because my Lord is stronger and more able than my memory.

Psalm 51:6 Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom.

Truth resides in my mind alongside my wound to cover it with grace.