Hebrews 12:3-6 English Standard Version
Do Not Grow Weary
3 Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted. 4 In your struggle against sin you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood. 5 And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons? “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him. 6 For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.”
We all struggle but realize we do not struggle alone. It is not that we should or could take any comfort in the struggles of our brothers and sisters in Christ but rather that Christ Himself has gone through worse than we have and knows how to help us win our struggles.
We use words like “die to self” and end up making a vow to do better like it is as simple as a New Year’s resolution. That is a recipe for failure.
At the core of all change for what is good and right is the love of God for His children. This discipline spoken of here is the correction of failed behavior. His love needs to be returned with gratitude, submission and faithfulness. We will not come to the point of avoiding sin behaviors without loving God for all that He has done for us and in us.
We worry more about what we see as our problems rather than listening to what the Lord has to say to us in the moment. He leads us in paths of righteousness but if we do not listen, believe and obey, we will find ourselves off the path.
One of the reasons we covered judgment first is to come to that point where we are listening to the Lord rather than looking around to see what everyone else is doing. Those will become distractions from listening to God who abides in our hearts.
When we gave our hearts to Christ that became the center of right choices.