Matthew 10:28 And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell.
Destroy is a difficult term to deal with here because the inference is that God does the punishing once a person is in hell. The Greek word here is apollymi. This is the same Greek word translated as lose in John 6:39 “And this is the will of him who sent me, that I should lose nothing of all that he has given me, but raise it up on the last day.”
When we think about being separated from God, the basis of our relationship should be viewed through Christ’s work of salvation. When we arrive there will be a separation of the sheep from the goats. Ref. Matthew 25:31-46
The sheep are Christ’s and the goats are the lost or losers. This is viewed from Christ’s perspective, not our own.Those losers end up going to eternal damnation where their tormentor, Satan and his ilk will make life with them a living hell, for all eternity.
Since we can view winning and losing in this way, don’t we all want to be on the winning side?
John 16:33 I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.
While the word “overcome” does mean conquer in the Greek the word world is adorn; “a harmonious arrangement or order,” then, “adornment, decoration,” came to denote “the world, or the universe, as that which is Divinely arranged.”
My way of thinking this is not a teachable moment but it does give me peace, which should be the point to John 16:33. Jesus has taken back the crown. That which was lost by original sin coming into the world has now been won back.
Think of it in any way that brings you peace but just because I find my peace this way does not mean everyone else must find it also. As we learned in 1 Corinthians 13, love does not insist on having things its own way. I love you enough to allow you to find peace as you need it. My love isn’t perfect, His is.
So the title here is loser but that does not allow me to go around calling the lost “loser”. I have seen first hand that this is an approach that does not work. We are all sinners, the difference is saving grace which should be the focus of discussion when in the midst of the battle for winning souls to Christ.
Some of us are so far removed from our old life that we have lost sight of how it felt to be lost. Grace is not just a salve that heals wounds, it removes the scars. Paul had a thorn in his flesh as a reminder of his imperfection. I don’t need scars to know that.