Mark 9:35 And he sat down and called the twelve. And he said to them, “If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all.”
When we start out with nothing, knowing nothing, and see others serving us, how do we become like them?
The key to that is hidden in what Jesus said, “If anyone would be first”. That is a selfish desire.
Romans 12:3 For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.
Thinking of self is selfish. To be like the one who serves all, we need to become selfless, seeking nothing for ourselves.
Romans 12:6 Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them:
Gifts given are not earned. They are meant to be used to serve others, not ourselves.