John 5:19 So Jesus said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of his own accord, but only what he sees the Father doing. For whatever the Father does, that the Son does likewise.
When I was a child my father taught me to hunt and fish, he was my coach in baseball and we built his first home together. We did every significant thing together.
My father never said he took pleasure doing things together. It was just understood. I loved doing it with him and that was enough for me.
Then I went off to the Army and Vietnam. We were separated but he was a WWll veteran, and he and I were the only ones in my family that shared that experience. When I got back home I turned to him and said, “Now we both have something not to talk about.” He nodded, he understood.
The years that followed filled with self-medicating my PTSD. I did not come home because I did not want to disappoint my father.
Romans 8:8 Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
If we love the Father we should want to please Him. My lesson in all this is that if you want to please the Father, do things together, whatever He wants to do.