Romans 13:10 Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.
Galatians 5:22-24 English Standard Version
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. 24 And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.
Note very closely that the first fruit of the Spirit is love. Without it the others do not glorify God..
Love allows us to crucify the flesh and choose to love Jesus rather than self.
1 John 5:2 By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and obey his commandments.
But didn’t Jesus say to love your enemy in Matthew 5:44?
How can you love an enemy if you cannot even love your brothers and sisters in Christ?
In Luke 23:34 Jesus asked the Father to forgive those who nailed Him to the Cross and divided His garments.
Jesus led by example and is asking us to do the same.