1 Corinthians 8:1b English Standard Version (ESV) This “knowledge” puffs up, but love builds up.

Bloated ego is an insult but the term exists because of pride in knowing something valued as important. We must be aware that the reason we have spiritual knowledge in the first place is to build up others so that they too can share the good news of Jesus Christ.

Have we seen others that constantly talk about what they know and do not take the time to listen? It is off putting. When we disciple others we should be mindful that our first priority is to the Lord and His will in all matters. His examples are to be followed and this is just one.

The term “Jesus answered” appears in the New Testament 73 times in the ESV and 85 times in the KJV. It is clear that Jesus listened. One of the responsibilities of a teacher is to solicit questions from his students. It is their questions that reveal if the lessons are effective.

Bloated egos do not want to hear from others. They love the sound of their own voice. They may very well be knowledgeable but that does not mean they are loving. Loving is the goal. Disciples that feel loved are more likely to absorb the lessons of love.

One of the goals of this loving care is to be a resource for the Lord. Do this so others will recognize us as a resource but beware of becoming “the answer”. When we become “the answer” it will become easier to just answer rather than to say “let’s discuss it”.

The questions they have about our Lord are just the leading edge of something going on inside. It is their thinking that reveals their struggle and their struggle is what needs to be addressed.

Genesis 25:22 English Standard Version (ESV) The children struggled together within her, and she said, “If it is thus, why is this happening to me?” So she went to inquire of the Lord.